It is important that He is at the center of everything. I'm trusting that the Lord will enable me to find a best-friend in my spouse (is there any other way?) She would be someone who has a great sense of her identity in Christ. A great listener who imparts grace in her speech and actions, and someone with great wit. We would be able to kid with each other and enjoy each other's company. At the same time, we would each have the freedom to speak our minds. Spiritual time together would be a high priority...for both us. It wouldn't be enough to just go to church together. Rather, I would hope that my mate would look forward to walking the walk e ach day as a new adventure as we seek to know Him more intimately. I would love to tell you all of the things I don't desire in a relationship, but you know them already. If He is truly ruling in your heart then those undesirable traits won't dominate the relationship. I am also reluctant to continue on in saying that I desire someone who is "this" or "that". If what I mentioned in the prior sentences is happening in both of our lives, who am I to put a lock on what I think I should have in a mate. He knows what's best. I would consider myself to be very out-going, witty and well spoken with a good/excellent sense of humor. Depending upon the setting, you could find me having deep conversations with unfamiliar faces or just chewing the fat with close friends. One would never have to guess where they stand with me as I am very honest and frank with people (especially whom I care about).